Pleasantly surprised the other day when my friend asked if it would be too heavy for me to carry 4 cups of Gongcha to school for them
It might just be 客套話 but still pleasantly surprised since people don't usually ask me that
Like they just auto assumed I have strong biceps.

Also pleasantly surprised on other occasions when my friends asked if I could reach home safely since it was late at night
Again it might be just 客套話 but it's something that I hear so rarely
We can be like in a larger group and every other girl gets asked if they could reach home safely except for me.
Le sigh

Just wanna let those guy friends know, you all are AWESOME
<3
Thank you =)

Aw man love this
like the old Big Bang songs <3

Some time ago my snr taught us the idea of 我吞
and after some encounters in life, I've realised what a useful expression it is

Like just earlier on at supperhop, one of my freshies became very angry just because she was tired and wanted to go back to hall badly but there were some uncertainties about whether they would be going back to hall straight.
and she just got really angry
Like look no one did anything wrong in that situation and it was fairly clear who wanted to go home who wanted to stay
so in that situation it would be to 吞 then try talking nicely to her on how to solve the situation

Then when I was bathing I thought about the incident that happened when I was in Korea
Someone pointed fingers at me saying I was the cause of certain conflicts between us
But what I felt (and still do) was that it always take 2 hands to clap.
So the other party must have done something that made me react in such a way
Immediately I replied back saying yes I was wrong but did the other party know what he/she did wrong
But like always, he/she tried to refute everything I said
so then I stopped replying for a while
and I thought '我吞'
Since he/she wasn't listening to anything I said at all
I merely apologised for what I did wrongly and told him/her "nope there's nothing else I want to mention about" though there were some many more instances in mind that I felt he/she had responsibility in.
我吞.


Though I really wanted to tell that party
since the confrontation came cos of my facebook status which he/she felt that was targeting him/her
and he/she felt that there were many more status updates targeting her
do you seriously feel that you had done so much wrong things that people have so much to say about you?
and if you really felt so, wouldn't a reflection be more suitable than a confrontation?
Just saying

I read this once on Twitter
that a Sagittarius forgives easily, but before that you have to sit through a long 'why you did what you did'
and since that matter mentioned above was never settled
I'm still very bothered by it
Particularly when the other party pointed fingers at me but felt he/she totally didn't contribute to the conflict. What nonsense.

'我吞' helped me to avoid a lot of unwanted conflicts since school started.
Just 吞 only.

I felt like I just grew up a little
:)