was watching We Got Married yesterday,
the last episode of Ssangchu/Lettuce couple
and HyunJoong said this

You’re not even strong
and pretend that you are
You pretend you’re strong and cry at the back

I don’t think that’s necessary
I’m just saying that people don’t just see Hwang Buin being strong
and I’m not saying you should pretend to be feminine
I know this from being by you and you’re not strong at all
so.. don’t pretend to be strong
and laugh when you want and be sad when you’re sad
I just wished you wouldn’t try so hard to look so strong
People don’t know…
that Hwang Buin is really like a woman

When you meet someone nice next time
ask him for mushy things like stars from the sky

<3
If this was a drama, it would be a genre of drama that I like
actually I didn't know I liked this genre until I began watching 敗犬女王
where 單無雙 was a really strong woman
She didn't need to be protected
wasn't small and cutesy
and definitely not looking for her hero while acting all tough
then 盧卡斯 comes along and tell her he knows she's a woman
and she doesn't need to be strong

BAM
it just hit me right there and I loved the show
I'm kind of getting sick of stories where the girl is the damsel in distress and then the main guy comes along, be her hero and then she falls in love with him
and story lines about say... overweight people finding true love isn't that appealing to me also
I mean yes it's different from the typical female lead who's small and cute, possibly bubbly character.
But then somehow it doesn't feel so real
To me it seemed like there are more woman acting strong and people not recognising them as woman (which is kind of sad)
so I really really love it when someone points out to these ladies that 'hey, you're still a girl no matter how strong you act'
too aw-y-fying for me.

I hope I can find the guy who tells me I'm a girl
and that I don't need to be strong